EXPERIENCING THE UNPLEASANT
This weeks small exercise was about paying attention to experiences we don’t like. Noticing when there is a sense of resistance, of “not wanting”, “not liking”. Also noticing any thoughts, emotions and bodily sensations that come alongside this.
It recommended keeping a diary of these experiences. Write down what you noticed, what you experienced and reflect.
Would you normally have noticed any of this?
- WHAT IS IT?
- WHAT THOUGHTS ARE ARISING?
- CAN YOU NAME ANY EMOTION?
- WHAT ARE YOU NOTICING IN THE BODY? (BE SPECIFIC)
When something unpleasant happens, can you identify where you usually feel it in your body? How did this exercise compare with becoming aware of pleasant experiences?
I decided to reflect on an unpleasant experience of feeling ‘fed up’ in work one morning.
WHAT IS IT?
I was feeling fed up in work. I did not want to be there anymore. I felt a resistance to wanting to move my body never mind do actual work.
WHAT THOUGHTS ARE ARISING?
I hate this place. When will I move on? I don’t feel challenged. I need to move. I am bored. I really do not want to do anything today.
CAN YOU NAME ANY EMOTION?
Sad. Frustration. Dread.
WHAT ARE YOU NOTICING IN THE BODY?
A feeling of heaviness in my chest. I feel drained. Slowed down. Stiffness. My body did not want to move. My face felt long and weighed down.
Again, this exercise highlights the whole connection between thoughts, feelings, behaviours and bodily sensations. Another self awareness exercise. By zoning in and noticing these experiences we can start to control them more and more.